For parents & guardians
You don't need perfect conversations. Just real ones.
Meet Skye — The Slingshot Advisor, an AI advisor trained on the IDEAS Framework. A calm, judgment-free guide for helping your 16–28 year old answer the biggest question there is: what do I want to do with my life? College, trades, work, a gap year. No direction is the wrong direction.
An AI advisor trained on the IDEAS Framework used with over 10,000 students.
My daughter graduates in June and every time I ask about her plans she shuts down.
That shutdown is almost never apathy — it's overwhelm. She's being asked for an answer before she has any experience to base it on.
Try dropping the plan question entirely this week. On a drive, ask something smaller: “What part of your day do you actually not mind?” Then let it sit. You're gathering data, not closing a decision.
What is the IDEAS Framework?
Instead of asking “have they figured it out yet?”, ask “where are they in the process?” Tap any phase to see what it means, what you might be hearing at home, and how you can help.
Words you can actually use
Real phrasing for the car ride, the kitchen table, and the tense moments — not theory.
Every path counts
Trades, military, work, community college, four-year, a year off. Skye never ranks them.
Lower the pressure
Less fear, less urgency, more curiosity — for them and for you.
There is no losing, just learning.
Bring one worry, one conversation, or one blank stare. Skye will help you take the next confident step.
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